That was the first thought….the second thought was are we like our cars? In today's world..society judges you by what type of car you drive. Truck...manly...sporty...aka middle life crisis...small and compact.... girly....what did my car say about me? Sure, me and my car are both compact, girly and look great in black! If my car was a gay man, he would be a total the total slim, bottom and ethnic type. And the car like me are so high maintenance! Life crises are when the car breaks down and therapy just becomes the annual servicing. It is almost the same price!

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Actually dating can become like the servicing. Why is it that no matter how new or in good health your car is…the moment you take it to the dealer for an oil change…they always ask to change something…change the filter, change tires, add this type of oil and change the break pads and fluids. As I know nothing about cars, I can only agree...and pay for it! Why can't they just love my car as it is.... Who’s gonna disagree with cute mechanic boy? I mean…getting a servicing is a bit like going on a gay date or being in a gay relationship. You are never good enough..there’s always something that needs to be changed or upgraded…Your dick isn’t big enough, you only have one six pack, blah..blah..blah The car servicing is done. If only they traded oil jobs for blow jobs. I think I could make Mike my cute mechanic very happy!

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(Editor’s note: I am alive, just that blogger has been down for maintenance. Thanks for your messages and concern. The picture on the left was taken by my favourite couple Will and Todd. It is my eternal sun, the tattoo I got in Hawaii.) Today I took my car for servicing. Well, it is not really my car. It is my ex-work colleague Jodie’s car. She’s off in Bangladesh saving children from famine while I look after her little girly car. Who would have figured that such a small car could cost so much to run? That sounds selfish in light of so many Bangladeshi children who are dirty poor and have no food! While waiting for the oil to be changed I had a thought. Well two thoughts. First, why are car mechanics so freaking cute. Is it the little shirts with their names on them? Is it the fact that they look a bit dirty and greasy? Or is it the way they talk about lube and oil that makes any gay guy wanna have him look under his under carriage?

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It got me thinking about whether or not I would pass my own life inspection. I am nearly 30, have no boyfriend, no real career and no home…I still rent, buy disposable Ikea furniture and I am very neurotic. This is not really where I expected to be…30 seems like such a grown up age… My father always likes to compare my life to his. “When I was 30, I had three kids, a home and a business,” he says. I always pictured myself more settled at 30. I did not expect myself to be planning to study…again much less planning to live the student life in a foreign country. A life inspection is much harder than a rental inspection. You can’t just hide everything in the closet and under the bed. I actually have to deal with my future life…for more than 15 minutes and live with my decisions. All of this stress is leading to what sociologist call the quarter life crisis….20 something adults are questioning their lives, relationships and careers. No longer do we look for just a middle life crisis…we can now experience that earlier… Are you going through a quarter life crisis?

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For someone who has not had a real relationship in the last five years, I sure get asked for a lot of relationship advice! Is it a case of the blind leading the blind? Or those who can’t…teach? My friend Chris had a relationship dilemma. His boyfriend wants to go to Canada to do a working holiday before the end of the year. Should he break up with him or go with him?

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